That’s right folks, after 15 years of writing, researching, and editing, the first book is here! I’m very excited to even type these words… it’s been a long journey. I want to thank everyone who helped along the way, including the lucky folks who donated their time to helping polish up the pre-release versions. Visit my book at amazon and upgrade your life today!

The Conversation Code: How to Upgrade Your Social Skills and Your Life covers the first six habits of exceptional conversationalists. What they say and do differently, and what we can learn from them. It’s packed with over 1,000 real-life examples and 100s of actionable techniques. You’ll learn how to:

  • initiate and connect with anyone
  • be more confident and likeable
  • improve your conversational sixth sense
  • offer more interesting observations and opinions
  • ask better questions
  • be a better listener
  • keep the conversation going longer


The second book, The Funny Conversation Code, covers the seventh habit: Play. It continues where the first book left off, but focuses on making your conversation more entertaining and fun. It includes a lot on humor, telling entertaining stories, and much more. Look for it to come out at the end of next year! (For a sneak preview, visit my training, which covers a lot of the Play habit).

Please visit my book here at to purchase your own copy and support my continued efforts to deliver the best social skills content anywhere! (I intentionally don’t use ads or ask for donations – because I think buying my book is a win-win for everyone).



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